Some of you may know me from "way back," or we worked together, or you've seen me around the neighborhood. Maybe you know me as Coach Pat from Little League, or as my gamer friends know me, Dragonsnap.
However you're familiar with me, thanks for landing here! I'm in a bit of a sticky situation and I could really use your help.
That I'm an organ transplant recipient? Thanks to a nasty case of strep when I was a kid, my kidney function slowly declined throughout high school and college, and I ended up needing a transplant.
Fortunately my mom was a match and 22 years ago she donated one of her kidneys to me. Because of her incredible gift I've been able to do so much that never would have been possible.
I married my college sweetheart, Cherie, and we have two wonderful kids. I enjoy an active life - mountain biking with friends, snowboarding with my daughter, and playing baseball with my son, and generally acting like I'm still a teenager.
We've had a good run, but this old kidney can't keep up like it used to. I've been a model recipient and followed all the rules (healthy diet, regular exercise, managing my blood pressure, avoiding smoking and taking all my prescriptions).
But even under the best circumstances, living-donor kidneys only last for 20-25 years, and we have reached the expiration date. The past couple months my health has taken a pretty steep decline to the point where I'm unable to do the things I love.
And so, I'm finding myself in need of another transplant.
Unfortunately, finding a match this time around is more challenging. Because of my previous transplant I have a high antibody count, which makes finding a match that my body won't reject a lot more difficult.
So, I'm reaching out to all of you because I'm hoping you can help me.
How to help
Living kidney donation is a pretty amazing process. More people learning about the process means more lives can be saved!
Read more about the amazing work The Ohio State University has done in their Living Kidney Donor program!
If you could "smash that share" button and help me get my story out there, I'd really appreciate it!
Finding a match may be a needle in a haystack, but the more people that know, the better the chances are.
I would never ask nor expect anyone to do this, but if you're considering seeing if you're a match, thank you so much!
Please read the "How do I find out if I'm a match" section below to learn more about the process.
Finding out if you're a match starts off with a simple questionnaire to see if you are qualified to be a donor. If you qualify, you will then be asked to do a tissue typing test, where The Ohio State University Transplant Center will mail you a mouth swab kit to do and send back.
That's the biggest hurdle to get through right now in finding a match. If it turns out that you're a match, there are additional screening evaluation steps that you'll be asked to complete, such as blood work and scans.
You'll be asked if you will be donating to someone specific - please enter "Pasada Khumprakob" (my legal name) and birthday 04/29/1980.
Please note that the process is completely anonymous. If you're on the fence about it, remember that you can drop out at anytime and the information will not be shared with me. This is a big ask, and unless you tell me, I don't know who has and has not been screened.
If the questionnaire declines you, please reach out to The Ohio State University Transplant Center, as they've said their questionnaire can be a little 'over the top' with screening (614-293-6724, option 3).
Nope! Healthy adults can live a normal life with one functioning kidney. Potential living donors are fully evaluated to ensure that donation would not put their health at risk.
You must be 18 years of age, in good health, with normal kidney function and no major physical or mental illnesses. There are a number of other factors to consider, all of which will be addressed during the evaluation process should you decide to become a living kidney donor.
Typical full recovery is 4-6 weeks, but most people are back to normal activities after a week or so.
Surgery is usually performed laparoscopicly, meaning smaller incisions requiring a shorter hospital stay for faster recovery. Most donors are able to go home the day after surgery.
Driving may resume one to two weeks after surgery, and depending on the occupation, can usually return to work in two to four weeks. For the first six weeks, donors are restricted from lifting anything over five to ten pounds. After that six-week period, all normal life activities can be resumed.
All medical expenses are paid by me. Not a dime is billed to you.
If you went through the process and found out you're not a match, first of all thank you so much! I can't imagine that was an easy decision, but I really appreciate that you would do that for me.
If you still want to donate, The Ohio State University Transplant Center has a "Transplant Chain" program. A kidney transplant chain essentially means being a donor for someone else, in exchange for one of their donors being a match to me. You can learn more about this program and read about a 10-way chain here.
As of September 2025, I am officially on the waitlist. The average time on the waitlist is roughly 3.5 years, not accounting for the difficulty in finding a match for me.
Waiting on a kidney comes with a series of challenges, from reduced quality of life to dialysis, infection, and more. Finding a living donor eliminates a lot of these challenges, but more importantly living donor kidneys last twice as long as cadaver donations.
Overall, living donation yields much better health outcomes, but I'm looking at all possible options.
Asking for help isn't something that comes naturally to me, and this isn't a small ask by any means. When I say Thank You, I mean it more than you'll ever know.
Thank you for taking the time to read my story, learning about organ donation, and helping my family and I through this. It means the world to us!
If you have any questions, please drop me an email SparePartsForPat@gmail.com or give me a call. You can also call the wonderful folks at The Ohio State University Transplant Office for any questions you may have (614-293-6724, option 3)